Dream Date: Dinner with a Five Year Old

Tonight, I had dinner with a wonderful, inspiring, solutions-oriented friend and her brilliant, creative 5 year old daughter. We discussed our "Highs and Lows" at dinner (she usually does "Rose, Bud and Thorn", but was willing to acquiesce to my family's version). We circled up again to share favorite songs, and talked about speaking Spanish (she is fluent, I only know my color words). I inquired about school, and she shared amazing details - her favorite read aloud (The Invisible Boy), the best class job (line leader) and the calendar routine (the weather is the most fun - there's even a song with several verses, all of which she knows). Although it was definitely bedtime when our dinner was over, she invited me to make fans with her - and as a special treat, we got to sit up at the counter, chatting as we discussed our designs, color choices and experiences with fan making (she's an expert; I'm out of practice). 

All of us should have dinner with a 5 year old. 

They tell the truth. They believe in people. They have both caution and confidence. Every young child deserves for us to be curious about their hopes and dreams, their favorites, their artistic process. I'm so grateful for these reminders and I'm committed to carrying them into the rest of my week. I think there will be some coloring, paper-folding and fan-making coming up in my next workshop.

Thank you, A. You inspire me! 💜



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  1. What a treat! This dinner sounds lovely. This line is so true - "They tell the truth. They believe in people. They have both caution and confidence". This is why I am so grateful to spend my days with students in K-2. I love their view of life and have for over 30 years.

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    1. Cathy, you're in such a wonderful and important spot - these little ones require a lot, for sure, but give so so much, too. Thank you for your work with kids!

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  2. That sounds like some very interesting dinner conversation. My two youngest grandchildren are 7 and 8, and they have no filters and are not afraid to ask/say what's on their minds. It is always an adventure. I may make myself a fan this week!

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    1. Yes, Rita - make yourself a fan, and maybe do it with your grandchildren :) And may we all find the good and right ways to speak our minds!

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    1. It was a treat to have the slowness of a dinner together... time to really learn.

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  4. What a sweet interaction. It sounds like the conversation was easy and who doesn't love a craft along with food?

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    1. Betsy, I am definitely going to increase my crafting time, thanks to my dinner tonight!

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